I have been back in the dating scene for about six months, but the problem is I have no idea where to start to meet a new man. The clubs are the worst place. I’m a professional with no kids and i’m looking for a quality man, but when I go to speed dating events it is mainly white people. is there a place where I could find black single professionals like myself to meet?
Hey gurl, there are some websites that might help you out. Membership for ladies is, usual, free but, not always. So, check out the site below. Look up guys in your area and keep an eye out for special singles events listed. Good luck!
depends on where you live…
http://www.myspace.com create an account and search for local black people in your area… Good Luck. It really works, I’ve met over 40 people this year. I love it! Ive made some amazing friends! And this site is COMPLETELY free!!
i feel where your coming from sista but this is something that i tell all of my friends who are single, when you stop looking, he’ll come to you. Theres no reason for you to go to speed dating events and loud clubs because you dont have to, trust me.
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You should try http://www.myspace.com or http://www.blackplanet.com
u can meet people in your area and get to know them from the inside out! just make a profile and start searching’ good luck!
ni hon
You need to go to a variety of places where you can meet people like:
Church (try a different one every month)
Book Signings
Cookouts
Lectures
Walking Tours of black neighborhoods like Harlem (I love New York)!
Also look for black oriented events on meetup.com.
You could also try volunteering for a black organization. That way you are in constant contact with interesting Black people who have similar values. How about the United Negro College Fund, or any other black organization in your area?
Finally, don’t count out asking people to introduce you to eligible black males they know. Since they know you both, they might have a clue as to whether you can get along. There’s nothing wrong with it. People have been meeting this way for centuries.