Im an attractive, slim, intelligent, ambitious, black woman who is a single mother of two well mannered, beautiful boys who is feeling discouraged about finding a tall, sexy, athletic, loving, family oriented and financially successful man to be my husband, lover and friend. is it possible or am i just dreaming?
im 36 years old and i dont look a day over 28 !!!
I should add that the man has to be HONORABLE (of high moral character) and attend church with boys and I. it is important for my boys to see with their own eyes what a healthy, loving relationship looks like, im so worried about making the wrong choice in the man i bring into our lives! Its a lil overwhelming !!

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11 Responses to “Is it possible for a black, american single mom to find love and marriage with a attractive, successful man ?”

  1. crazyfox@ymail.com on March 12th, 2010 at 1:34 pm

    Yes, without a doubt.

  2. Forlorn Hope on March 12th, 2010 at 4:29 pm

    there is always a chance… but you have to go trawling the others to find your diamond… :D

  3. DrPhilamina on March 12th, 2010 at 4:32 pm

    It really all depends on how much effort you put into it. No one knows what the future holds. I’m sure there are lots of guys like you describe out there, but what are you doing to find him?

  4. dymesysta on March 12th, 2010 at 4:45 pm

    :) That’s funny. I “dream” the same dream. See, I’m 26 years old and the mother of 2 beautiful girls. Like yourself, I’m attractive, intelligent, ambitious and trimmed; am highly favored amongst God and am looking for my equal. I don’t think we’re asking for too much…not enough if you ask me. I just don’t want to raise my girls alone. But, I will not bend my standards – so neither will you. Hold on and be strong Mr. Right Now will come sooner than later.

    God Bless

  5. Marie V on March 12th, 2010 at 6:29 pm

    you need to get into a solid bible based, [not emotions based] church and find a true, single man. Sounds like God is missing from the big picture. [and forget about 'lover', have higher standards, or your sons will be confused as to what a quality mother really is]

  6. tanika971 on March 12th, 2010 at 7:06 pm

    of course it possible, never give up on your dreams.

  7. cluckincom on March 12th, 2010 at 7:28 pm

    dreaming -sorry -

    love isnt in looks or money – its in the heart thats where you have to look babe

  8. miabella on March 12th, 2010 at 8:51 pm

    I think you have too many pointers on the list of who is perfect for you.
    Try lowering your sights a little, you may have to settle for someone ordinary that loves you and your boys but does not have all the attributes you are looking for.
    You dont want much do you ………………………?

  9. Eleanora on March 12th, 2010 at 8:57 pm

    Everything is possible if you want it to be, just remember your children come first, and when you meet a guy, try not to be too clingy too quickly or come across as a gold digger. Try and be yourself, be upfront and take things one day at a time

  10. Philip H © on March 12th, 2010 at 10:00 pm

    Not too much to ask for, I shouldnt think

  11. Don S on March 13th, 2010 at 12:30 am

    Wat happen to the baby daddy?

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